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President's message
Restoration
My
youngest son, Jess, entered a tractor restoration contest sponsored by
FFA while he was in high school. At first, he had settled on a Farmall H as
the project tractor and began to search for a suitable and salvageable unit to
purchase. When Grandpa got wind of the project, he offered up the Ford 8N
tractor that his
father had purchased new in 1950. It had been used by the family ever since -
well, almost. Actually, Grandpa told us that a few years earlier, the tractor
had started
to use so much oil that he decided to park it before it ran out of oil and seized
up the engine. It was PERFECT for the project! A tractor with a history (especially
a
family history) was much more valuable and more exciting to work on
than any unknown piece of iron you might find on Ebay.
Had we missed visiting with Grandpa about the project, we would never have known
that the Ford was in need of restoration.
Jess and I started tearing down the 8N. In no time, we were bitten by the
restoration bug. It seemed that the project would
take forever, but before we knew it, we had "remanufactured" that little Ford
tractor. Jess had to track and document all the
hours of labor and every dollar spent on the
project. It consumed a lot of man-hours and a lot of tuition money! The little Ford was
down, but not out. With some work and TLC, we brought it back to life. Thinking back
to the time that we spent together on this restoration, I would not trade the hours
shared for anything. While Jess recorded the time we spent in the shop, he did not begin
to record all the time spent planning, thinking about, and dreaming of the
completed project. The mental part of the job consumed at least as much time as the
actual work on the iron. We put a lot of emotional capital into that little tractor!
Recently, I happened onto a daily devotional entitled
"Restoration."1 Of course, after all Jess and I went through on
restoring the tractor, this title caught my eye.
The twist on the title was that it was addressing the restoration of relationships, not
some hunk of iron. The article made me think back to a conversation I had with one
of our more prominent colleagues a few years back. We were talking about pig
disease (what else?) and he mentioned that a particularly obscure occurrence of a
respiratory disease in some breeding stock had
caused quite a rift between two of our fellow
swine veterinarians. He told me that they had such bad feelings towards one another
that they would likely never talk to one another again. What a pity!
The point of the devotional is that restoring relationships is a very important part
of having them. Since we are all far from perfect, we are prone to mucking things
up and letting each other down occasionally. So openness and forgiveness are
important parts of our lives. Over the years in
practice, I have seen family relationships
(brothers, fathers, sons, husbands, and wives)
torn apart because of what one said or didn't say to the other. There are cases where
brothers farm the same ground and run their cows in the same pastures, but won't speak
to each other when they meet in the barnyard. There have been sons who carried a
grudge and injured pride to the father's
graveside. What could a little restoration effort
have hurt?
I have to admit that I have spent a lot more time in my life restoring tractors and
"fixing" things than I have spent on restoring
broken relationships. Granted, I hope that I have not had many broken relationships in
my life, but there may be some that I don't know about. Remember, we would
have restored a Farmall if Grandpa hadn't
brought his little Ford to our attention. My point
is, if you have a broken relationship, make sure you make it known to the other
person, or the restoration project may never get started.
Reference
1. Purpose Driven Life.com. Devotional
archives. Available at
http://www.purposedrivenlife.com/devarchive.aspx?ARCHIVEID=97
. Accessed October 23, 2004.
--John Waddell
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